Chapter 12 - MY WILL

At seventy-six, I rewrote my will. No husband. No children. Austin gone. Mom gone. Dad gone.

I had nieces and nephews through Austin’s marriage? Austin had stepchild, maybe no biological. Lauren's son was step-nephew. Also cousins and friends.

Then what happens to my estate?

I could leave all to charity.

Some to Lauren.

Some to Austin’s step-son Daniel Michaels? Let's name Luke Michaels, Lauren's son. Austin loved him.

Then trust advisor asked:

“Do you want to include Kathleen?” I laughed.

Not because absurd.

We were friends. Maybe.

Then: “Should friendship become inheritance?” Could.

Then: “Do I want?”

I decided modest personal gifts to several people. Main estate: Libraries. Arts education.

Domestic violence legal aid. Financial literacy.

No family foundation bearing Wellman name.

No committee controlled by descendants.

Then: “Any conditions?” No.

Then: “No alcohol?” No. Then: “Marriage?” No. Then: “Education?” No.

Then: “Thank-you letters?” I laughed. No.

Then I wrote short note:

“If you receive something from me, it is yours. You do not owe my memory a lifestyle.” Good.

Then I added:

“Do not use this money to make someone else easier to control.”

Maybe too instructive. Still value.

Then: “Can I remove later?” Yes.

Then no pressure.

Then Kathleen became executor? Better independent professional plus Lauren as personal representative.

I asked Lauren.

She said yes.

Then: “Do you want to read?” Yes. Transparent.

Then: “Any surprises?” No. Then: “Good.”

Then she said: “Austin would be shocked how boring this is.” Goal.

Then I started giving while alive. Not huge.

A library project. Legal clinic. No name.

Then one organization asked:

“Would you consider the Monica Wellman Center?” No.

Then: “Why not?”

“My name has had enough meetings.” They laughed.

Then accepted anonymous-ish.

Then I used money for myself too. Travel. Food. Comfort.

A condo with ocean view. Not mansion.

Because I liked.

Then one evening Kathleen said:

“You finally look rich.” I laughed.

“What does that mean?”

“You stopped apologizing for the nice chair.”

She was right.

For years I thought spending inherited money made me like Mom.

Then I learned greed is not defined by buying a comfortable chair.

Control is behavior.

Then: “Do you think Naomi made us suspicious of wealth?” Kathleen asked. “Family did.”

Then: “Do you wish you never got Dad’s veto?” Hard. Maybe.

Then: “It protected Ross.”

Then: “It also pulled you into war.” Yes.

Then: “Would you change?”

“I would want Dad to tell me himself.” Good.

Then: “Would you still say no to warrant?” “Yes.”

Then no regret.

Then I found an old voicemail from Dad.

He had left on my twenty-third birthday.

“Monica, call your mother. She says you’re avoiding family.” I laughed.

Then: “I know we push you.”

Then: “Your mother thinks pushing is love.” Wow.

Then: “I’m not much better.”

Then: “Happy birthday.” Simple. I saved.

Not because instruction. Voice.

Then one day technology migration corrupted voicemail. Gone. I panicked. Then stopped. I remembered.

No need digital proof.

Then: “Are you sad?” Kathleen asked. “Yes.”

Then: “Need recover?” No. Let gone.

Then Kathleen’s wife Rachel developed dementia. Slow.

Kathleen became caregiver. I watched.

Different from Mom/Austin.

She asked Rachel until Rachel no longer could decide.

Then advanced directive.

Then safe choices.

Then one day Kathleen said: “I’m terrified I’m controlling her.”

I answered: “You are using prior choices and current best interest.”

Then: “How know difference?”

“You keep asking other professionals to check you.” Good.

Then she did.

Then Rachel died years later. Kathleen shattered. I sat. No solving.

Then: “Do you want me to stay?” “Yes.” I stayed.

Then our friendship became family-like.

But we never called sister. No need.

Then Kathleen asked me to become medical proxy.

I said yes.

Then: “Are you sure?” “Yes.”

Then: “Do you want instructions?” “Yes. We laughed.

Then she wrote:

“Do not keep me alive because you are afraid to be alone.” Ouch.

Then: “Do not make decisions based on what Naomi would’ve done.” Good.

Then: “If I can still say no, listen.” There. Then years.

Then Naomi died unexpectedly? She could still be alive. No need.

Then one day a journalist contacted:

“Twenty-five years since the Wellman-Ross fraud case.”

I had forgotten anniversary.

They wanted retrospective. No.

Then: “Could Kathleen speak?” Her choice.

She also said no. Then: “Why?”

She said: “Because being manipulated by someone isn’t the most interesting thing about my life anymore.” Exactly.

Then I realized same.

Then one younger cousin asked about family story.

I gave short version.

Mom hid veto. Naomi forged. Austin threatened. Court.

Then cousin said: “Wow, you’re like a movie.” I laughed. “No.”

Then: “What should I learn?”

I resisted lecture.

Then: “Read what you sign.” They laughed.

Then: “Anything else?”

“If someone needs your no to disappear before their plan works, pay attention.” Good.

Then no more.

Then my estate attorney called. One issue.

Wellman Capital legacy account still held a tiny residual interest in a defunct shell.

Value maybe $12,000. Could close.

Then manager asked:

“Need Monica consent?” I laughed. “Of course.” Then read. Then signed.

Then Wellman Capital legacy vehicle dissolved fully. Balance distributed. Entity terminated.

The structure Mom once fought to control no longer existed.

Then I looked at certificate: DISSOLVED.

And felt not victory. Relief.

No one after me could fight over it.

Then Kathleen said: “Your dad would hate.” I smiled.

“He’s not voting.”

Still funny after decades.

Then we went for dinner. No documents. No Naomi. No Austin.

Just two old women ordering too much dessert.

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