Chapter 7 - Margaret had been afraid of Sarah long before the illness
Sarah’s mental-health crisis gave Margaret an opportunity.
It did not create their conflict.
The conflict began much earlier.
Sarah entered the Hale family at twenty-six.
She came from a middle-class Virginia family and built her own design business without inherited money.
Margaret disliked how little Sarah cared about Hale traditions.
Formal Sunday lunches.
Family seating arrangements.
Holiday obligations.
The assumption that major decisions should be discussed with Margaret before becoming final.
Sarah called those things “family theater.”
Margaret never forgave the phrase.
Then Lucas was born.
Sarah became more protective of boundaries.
She did not want Margaret entering the nursery without knocking.
She refused to let Margaret override the pediatrician.
She insisted that Eric spend Christmas morning at their own house rather than waking Lucas before dawn to drive to the vineyard estate.
Each boundary sounded small.
To Margaret, each one represented loss of status.
The final rupture came when Sarah told Eric she wanted them to move two hours away for her business.
Eric considered it.
Margaret interpreted that as Sarah taking her son and grandson.
Then Sarah became ill.
Suddenly Margaret was needed again.
She handled meals.
Childcare.
Scheduling.
Medical appointments.
Eric leaned on her.
Lucas stayed at the estate.
For Margaret, the crisis restored the hierarchy Sarah had threatened.
Robert eventually understood something uncomfortable.
His wife did not necessarily sit down and plan to remove Sarah from the family forever on day one.
The process evolved.
At first Margaret may genuinely have believed Sarah needed space.
Then she discovered how much easier family life became when communication flowed through her.
Eric depended on her.
Lucas lived nearby.
Sarah’s influence diminished.
When Sarah began recovering and asking for her place back, Margaret experienced it as disruption.
So she extended the emergency.
That was the pattern.
A temporary need became permanent authority.
And once Margaret had told everyone Sarah was unstable, admitting Sarah was actually getting better would also mean admitting Margaret’s role should shrink.
She refused.
So the story had to keep Sarah broken.
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Even when Sarah wasn’t.
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