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Chapter 4 - The Mansion Made Us Look More Stable Than We Were

We moved into the Westchester house three years before the dining-room incident.

Purchase price:

$3.8 million.

Large.

Expensive.

Not some inherited palace.

Grant had received a significant bonus after his employer sold a portfolio of properties.

I had inherited roughly:

$620,000

from my father after estate settlement.

We used:

both

toward the down payment.

The mortgage was substantial.

The taxes were:

absurd.

But our combined income supported it.

At least:

originally.

Then Grant left his employer.

He told me:

“I’m tired of making other people rich.”

He launched a small investment partnership called Whitmore Residential Partners with two former colleagues.

They planned to acquire:

distressed luxury homes,

renovate,

resell or rent.

Grant invested:

almost all of his liquid savings.

Then interest rates moved against them.

Renovations ran over budget.

One partner withdrew.

Two properties sat unsold.

Grant stopped discussing:

numbers.

I asked:

“How bad?”

He said:

“Timing problem.”

That became his phrase.

Not:

loss.

Timing.

Meanwhile my career improved.

I became director of design operations for a national architecture firm.

Base salary:

$186,000

plus bonus.

For the first time in our marriage, I earned more predictable cash than:

Grant.

Something changed.

At first:

jokes.

“My wife’s the sugar mama.”

Then:

questions.

“When does your bonus hit?”

“How much is in your separate investment account?”

“Why does your mother still own Sophie’s 529 instead of us?”

Us.

But “us” increasingly meant:

May you like

Grant had access.

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